Hello all. Long story short, I found out 2 mos. ago that H was having an affair for the past year. It has been an emotionally draining time for me and H as well. He begged me to forgive him and wanted to stay with me and our 2 kids. Last Thursday he decided that he was confused about what he wanted , whether or not our marriage was worth saving and told me he needed space. He went to see the OW I later found out I told him the marriage was over. After hearing this he announced he no longer needed any space and that he wanted his life back with me and our kids before he had his A. This all took place in a 12 hour span. He said he went to see the OW to let her know that this was the choice he was making and that he was sorry for hurting all involved. He told me that he neede to prove to me that I can believe and trust him again. I had spent the last 7 weeks trying to convince him to stay. I so want to believe all this but I feel maybe now I am too detached from him and the situation to try and make things work. Any advice would be appreciated!
