Kim, It sounds like you are having a bad day.The roller coaster effect is here.It is wierd ,but my H had days that he seemed to not care also,even though he said " i'll do anything if you stay and work on M".I don't know how to explain those moods,one day i had a mood, then he would have one,then things would be good for awhile.This is why it is so difficult. -I always thought to myself this is why GOD,speaks so against adultery in the Bible,he knows the terrible effects it causes.Then i would pick myself back up and remember " Jesus tells us to forgive". -Only you know what you feel and what you will put up with.Situations are different for us all.I'm still praying for you,K