My H definately piecing but me...

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I exchanged MC for a Psych dr. But we will see if he'll go. I dont want to stop MC though. But I was fearing for his health, so I thought anyway I can get him there. But now I am regretting the exchange.

I also had to do that for a while, he was way down there and really needed some medication. If he isnt whole there isn't much he can offer you, my H would say that to me constantly during the lowest part of his MLC-Depress: "I am empty and numb, I got nothing to give you"

I so understand the parent-child R in a marriage with an ADHD person, one becomes the caregiver and while one spouse puts up with the bear's share. The other is carefree and wondering why the former is resentful, a cycle I'm careful not to repeat, I used to do everything for my H. By being in the "home improvement committe" I also thought and told him how much better he could do things or/and would do it myself. I have to bite my mouth a lot and just let him do his things even though "I know" a better way.