Kim, They do give good advice here.I lurked here 6 yr. ago.I don't think i ever posted.I like you didn't have any advice to give.Now,here i am trying to help others.I feel like me and my H have made it 6 yrs longer than i thought we would,so maybe we did something right?I still wonder and question to myself sometimes about the A.The good thing is he is still here with me.As far as them paying for it,i think they do through the whole A.They have to live a lie,sneak around,always look over their shoulder.Who wants to live like that?K
