Hi Kim, I remember now you talked of moving here.The issue with your rings i think will be a personal choice.I took mine off for a couple of days,but when i was at work i felt very strange.I did not want people that i worked with to know i had problems at home.I never told anyone but my sisters,until years later of my H's A.I did not want our M to work out and then have problems with family members.In other words, them treating H different.I never told my co-workers or my H's family.He later told his parents himself.They were very shocked!Your rings symbolize love.When i wanted to remove mine i didn't feel loved.H said he always loved me,he just didn't show it.So i do understand you not wanting to wear them. At one point in rebuilding our R ,i thought it might be good for us to renew our vows.The idea never flourished.Now, i don't feel that i need to do that.I can look back and i know that we are married and even though we had a bad spell we married for better,for worse.Through the years we have had our better and our worse and i truly hope that was the worse from now on.It will get easier in time.It does take time though.K
