RB, it makes me uncomfortable as well. Relating all this to you as if you guys are high school girlfriends. WTF? Do you need to hear all this stuff; that you are some kind of revenge sex she can hurt him with? Eww. I just don't like it. (although at 6 months w/out sex, I might be persuaded to have it under any circumstances)

Granted, I am just a mere armchair quarterback here, as we all are since we 'see' such a limited picture of everyone's life on the boards. And my perspective is of course colored by my own sitch. So throw all the grains of salt you'd like on my POV.

Just thinking about you, and concerned that you are being stepped on here. Is she concerned about YOU? Your life? Your feelings? Or are you just the receptacle for all of HER problems, HER concerns, HER mourning over OM (yuck)?

I am getting frustrated with her like I used to with GH's wife.


Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19

If it seems slow in coming, wait.
It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3

Part 4