Thanks. I decided a few days after I found out about my H's A to be kind and loving. Of course I did the normal crying and begging but to no resolve. I continue to show him nothing but loving ways and try to work on myself. My biggest problem in the M is my control over things. He didn't really ever take control over anything so I took that upon myself...then it became second nature. That is a big step for me to get rid of this control. I pray that he begins to see the changes that I am making and realize that there is no need for the OW. What he wants and needs is at home with me and the kids.
Sorry to ramble. I am glad that things are beginning to look up in your sitch.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
