Hi RB, Well it sounds like I will be visiting you in Piecing soon! Grasshopper and MamaBear are over there, so it has been a wonderful year to see some of my early friends on these BB taking these strong steps towards reconcilliation. I am so so pleased for you and for your W and D that your family is reuniting. It touched me to hear that you put your wedding rings back on. [ And, my H and I have never taken ours off, so that is a hopeful sign for me, I like to think!] Please hang in there and post periodically with updates (and link us to your Piecing thread if you are going there next )

Regarding my sitch, my H is in MLC which is a little more complicated it seems, than just dealing with an A, which is certainly hard enough. I continue to be hopeful about my M, though, but it has been hard to be patient as the weeks have turned into months and now over a year of the A and almost a year since the bomb. But that's why I moved to the MLC BB, I have some company over there with very similar sitches and timelines I am hanging in.

I'd love to have you visit me over there sometime, although I know that you will be (and rightly so) spending more time on your M than on these BB's now. As it should be.

I will continue to hold you and your W and D in my thoughts and prayers, as you build your new future together. And of course, I will keep checking in on you on your thread! Blessings to you for the holidays, my friend.

PositivelyListening
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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller