Well, RB my friend, you can be cautious and calm and stable and take it one step at a time. I on the other hand, I AM ABSOLUTELY ESTATIC AND OVERJOYED!! Because YOU know that you will not accept just any situation, that you want a good life, a healthy life, for you and your daughter. You are lovingly detached. Cautiously optimistic? I am overjoyed for you. Truly wonderful. OM is out of the picture, W is looking deep within herself. You will keep learning, growing, stabilizing, and hopefully being as lovingly open as you can muster. You know RB, if your W does pull through (especialy since she wants to take some time to work on herself) you have a very good chance of having the healthy happy marriage you have always wanted. Just keep working on you though, RB. Because you will need to keep your heart loving and open, with your brain fully on. And that takes vigilance. Which I know you can manage RB. Look at what you hve managed to do so far! I am truly so happy for this latest development. Keep hanging in there, RB. More will be revealed! As you know, I am rooting for you.

PositivelyListening
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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller