Actually, PL, I may need the money next month for Christmas presents, so who knows? I don't make a whole lot as a teacher, and I really don't want to ask my grandmother for more money, so I may wait awhile before going ahead with the divorce.

I will be seeing my father, brother, and sister tonight for the first time in six years (we've been estranged -- read my back threads for the full story), so God is certainly blessing my life in other ways right now.

Ultimately, PL, you could be right. OM might meet someone else in North Carolina this month and dump my W. This might cause a crisis in her life sufficient for her to become a new person. I'm just no longer interested in sitting around and wondering if that's ever going to happen, but I also don't "need" a divorce anytime real soon.

The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)