Giving my sitch to God

[RBinBR]

PL, I know that you want my marriage to be saved, just as we all want all marriages on this board to be saved.

I think in general the LBS gives up too soon. It seems alot of these affairs peeter out in 2 years.

Well, I'm not filing so that I can hook up with someone else, so I'm not really closing any doors. In a way, I think that a divorce could actually better pave the way for a future relationship, because the past would be past.

I am just wondering how you have identified the difference between impatience, frustration and being "fed up" with the sitch, with being truly complete and at peace about it. I just know that sometimes people justify their choices to seek relief from pain.

Well, it's based on a changed perception of her. If and when the A ends, I no longer think that she will want to change and return to the marriage. I think she will then look for something else to fill the void in her life.

I just don't see any real point in waiting, other than the fact that I will be better off financially in another month or two. Also, what can it hurt? In fact, my finances may actually cause me to hold off for a few more weeks. I'm going to cancel my appointment for today.