Hi RB, It made me sad to read your post. I understand that sometimes a person just feels like enough is enough. It is hard for me, because I think in general the LBS gives up too soon. It seems alot of these affairs peeter out in 2 years. But I suppose you will have some time after you file for D, before it is final. Don't get me wrong, it is OK whatever you decide to do. I guess because it has been pretty much the same amount of time for my sitch as it has for yours (my H's A started in Sept 2005) and because I am still absolutely sure I want to keep DBing, I guess it would be helpful to hear how you got to "done". I have no idea what that would feel like. I just know that I am not "done" now. I am just wondering how you have identified the difference between impatience, frustration and being "fed up" with the sitch, with being truly complete and at peace about it. I just know that sometimes people justify their choices to seek relief from pain. And that is OK, it's all OK. It's just that oddly, I am not at peace with your sitch. So I want to understand how you got there.
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