Well....I just have to say that you are so strong. After 3 months it's hard for me to even imagine doing what you've done and going through what you've gone through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope that you have truely become a stronger person through this fight to save your marriage.

Like you, I am very close with my in-laws and understand how hard that must be. Tonight I was with my H's mom and two younger brothers who are 16 and 17, we are all very close. It is so difficult on everyone to go through this but in the end regarless what happens you will know that you did everything you could to try and make this work. Your dedication to your marriage is amazing and there aren't that many people like you out there!! Please be encouraged by the amazing strength you have through this situation and the unconditional love you have for your wife!! Be thankful to God that your conscience is clear and you don't have to live with the grief that our spouses will have to live with the rest of their lives.