Giving my sitch to God

[RBinBR]

Well, the weekend was an emotional time for me. I had to take my in-laws (who are really more like parents for me) and wake them up to the reality of what is happening. They, like my W, don't see why I need to "break up the family" by refusing to do family events with W. They don't understand why a divorce means a divorce in our relationship as well. I basically had to tell them, "Hey, I'm not your son anymore." I guess I'm hoping to get them off their butts a little more and maybe turn up the heat on W. I'm feeling lonely right now, though.

Good news is that W did go to counseling last week and had another appointment for today -- don't know if it will make a difference in the sitch, but it sure can't hurt, because I know the counselor and he's good and a solid Christian who will counsel her according to Christian principles.