Giving my sitch to God

[RBinBR]

Well, after 2 weeks of no contact with W, tonight I get a very angry call from her. Because I have told her family that I no longer want anything to do with her, tonight she angrily told me that I am trying to "separate her from her family" by not including her if D4 and I want to do something with the in-laws She said that we didn't need to be enemies, and I agreed, but said that I didn't want to be friends, either. I simply don't want to have anything to do with her. She repeatedly accused me of "tearing her family apart" by refusing to "be friends" and do stuff together. She insisted that I am trying to "punish her" by withholding contact, and that I am a hateful person to do such a thing.

She could not understand why I had changed my mind about us doing things together, since I had told her as recently as two weeks ago that we could do things as friends. Basically, I told her that I knew about her telling D4 that it was her grandparents fault that her parents were separated. I told her that the event had changed my mind about her, and that I wanted to live my life for Christ and her life is now a testimony for the other side, and I really didn't want to be associated with her right now. That didn't go over very well, but I didn't expect it to, and it was honest.

Anyway, it seemed extremely bizarre until I realized that the reason for her anger is that she misses me and it hurts her that I'm rejecting her.