Giving my sitch to God

[RBinBR]

Wow, PL, thanks for your optimism. I have to say, though, that my crystal ball has given me some incorrect answers in the past. If you look back early in my sitch, I thought the whole thing would only last a few weeks. Every time I've predicted the end of the A, it has continued on more and more.

So, I now trust more in God's Providence and have the humility not to pretend that I know what's going to happen. That said, if I had to guess, I would guess that the divorce proceedings put together with the counseling that she's getting might just do it. It's also possible that the emotional stress that she's under could trigger a manic episode that would put her into the hospital (which would certainly make her end it). And, you're right, she might see him differently now when she visits him, and the army may have changed him enough so that the neediness is not the same. It might change their R enough to make one of them decide to end it.

We'll see. I am prayerful for her, but largely unconcerned for myself. I'm just trusting God now and not worrying anymore.