Hi RB, I am really proud of you and pleased to see you standing so strong. You are amazing. I am completely confident that your sitch is unfolding exactly as it needs to. Interesting, I had a similar type of conversation with my H last Sunday. Different framework and language, but I was strong and detached and clear also. I have completely turned it over now. However, I am having a really strong sense in my sitch that my H will be coming home in the spring, that we will be resolved and working in a direction together by then. I can see that in my mind. Do you have a sense of where this is going? Can you picture resolution in your mind, and what it would look like in the best of all possible worlds? Because I am picturing for you that her visit with OM in October will allow her to see how destructive that R is for her. She has had enough time away from him now to begin to see this. And on top, the D proceedings could wake her up to the true realities of the costs of her continuing on the path she has been on. I remain hopeful for you RB. I encourage you to picture the desired outcomes in your mind. I know you will be OK either way, you are awesome, and God will provide for you. But dare to create your desired future in thought. What do you really want now?
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
