Amy, I think I know what you mean, but please elaborate so that I'm sure.
A minor note that I forgot from last night: I've been planning to take D4 to Disneyworld over Thanksgiving, and W said last night, "but I won't be able to spend Thanksgiving with her!" This woman had not considered that D4 would alternate Thanksgiving and Christmas with her after the divorce. She somehow still has this vision of me as her post-divorce best friend or brother or something. She doesn't get that we aren't still going to be able to spend holidays and birthdays together and such.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
