Thanks for the thoughts and I totally agree. Now the trick is how to bring this up. Things are just recently back on a stable footing, so I think it best to let this continue a little longer to give a sense of security to both of us before bringing up another potential source of conflict. If W will go back to the C, then I think the C could address this and leave it for W to look into with either her or someone else. At this point I do not know if W will go back. In the mean time, I will keeping looking into OCD.