I echo Karens post to you. If your W truly has well...any of these issues you need a thorough understanding of exactly what you are dealing with. Even then....you might (just possibly) find that the things you are striving so hard for her to concede to with you, she doesn't have the ability to give. That's simply a very possible outcome for someone dealing with real pathology issues. Some people can overcome wonderfully, some overcome to a degree, some simply don't.
At the very least, researching....and having her evaluated by someone truly qualified couldn't hurt could it?
