Still ridiculously busy, no time to put together a cogent response to you or the others. But I will say your posts to me about sound, to someone (I think it was Cobra) about building people up not tearing down, and also about how to build up passion really struck a chord with me. I have been trying to incorporate all in with my "alpha male" interactions with the W. I am trying to be leading without coming across as judgemental (something my W has accused me of some recently). I'm also trying to find ways to incorporate all this into how I treat my W's relationship with her parents and how it affects us. Its difficult, and I have made some recent missteps, but I'm working on it. Thanks for your words. And I promise ... more later. I really do want to talk about this stuff in detail.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"