I decided long ago you were not worth responding to. Now you want to call me a liar becasue you can't understand what's going on? She said she was tired, but she stayed up much later, until almost 3:00 am. So how tired do you really think she was at 11:00?
Did it ever occur to you that maybe part of what she initiallt says is not what she really means? That saying she is tired is just a simple defelction on her part to avoid too much intimacy, but after thinking it over a little, she realized she could handle it and it would be a show of good faith on her part, in return for the work I did for all all day? Or do you only see things from your perspective?
Sorry, Cally. You're an idiot. Plain and simple.
Corri,
No there was no influence from any planetary alignment or dumb luck. This is a typical pattern for us, one that has repeated many times. That does not mean it has to make sense to any of you. But if you are truly astute, you will read between the lines to try and understand what it is that she truly wants - it is not to fight or get D. She does want it to work as I do, but anger, ego, whatever you want to call it keeps getting in the way.
That is why I keep in the fight, keep pressing forward, why I CAN see a dim light at the end of the tunnel. We have agreement on where we both want to be. Getting there is the hard part and it is NOT all me. Sometimes ONE person can make the relationship get stuck. I got the wheels unstuck this weekend. I will try to keep things moving until we get stuck again, which is inevitable.
One other thing, you all have WAY over interpreted what went on with D13's angry comments.
