Quote: So what do you recommend I say to W tonight about her wrongly accusing D13 about her homework and pouring water on her? “Ooops, I guess that was just an oversight, dear?” “No harm, no foul? D13 will understand you were just reacting?” Get real. If this goes unanswered, I can guarantee that W will start to use this tactic more and more. Speaking to her nicely will not stop her since there will be nothing to stop her. Her guilt or conscious does not play into it. Only the recognition of impending consequence. Just what do you recommend?
NOP and I think you should *today* contact the proper authorities and get a temporary restraining order against your wife on behalf of your children.
Period.
No warning to her, no shouting.
Action.
No parent should tell a child that they will kill them.
Your children need you to protect them.
There should be consequences to your wife's actions. The only two options I see is you and your children leaving and getting away from your wife OR your wife leaving and getting away from you and your children.
Her poor behavior should result in her being the one who has to be inconvenienced.
