Quote: I would give my life for my kids. The first thing I told my H when he left was to please not take my kids. Without my kids I would feel like nothing. I can't even stand them being away for a weekend with their dad. It kills me. I can't see how you can say such mean things.
I used to feel that way too t2sp. I hated the thought of losing the girls. I would have fought him tooth and nail before I'd allow him to even see them again.
Now I get that I have real problems. SO does he . . . but at least he has the means to support them. Like I said . . I would hate to be bitter towards them because of him. Maybe it's just because everything is so wrong. I don't know . . . .
I just think they would be better off anywhere but here.