Quote: Is all of this based on an assumption from the stupid myspace thing?
Yes. All of those coversations took place BEFORE I knew that he had spent Sunday night with her. That's probably why we had to go pick him up in Mechanicsburg. . . . because he was in at her house. Then he spent Monday with me . . . and had that freak out about her. Because he was regretting actually kicking her out for me. She's probably back out on the road with him now.
Quote: Amy . . . I don't understand what you mean by, "unless I have more than that blog to back me up" What more do I need??? The truth finally came out. . . . what should I think? That you might want to give your husband the benefit of the doubt over the floozy that screws married men!
I mean there were always BULLSHIT excuses when he ended up down there instead of here on his weekends off. He did stop through here that one time . . . and he spent the whole night. How did he pull that off? Did he leave her across town in the truck? All that matters is where he is from now on.
Yup my brother does live right close to you. His wife is the one that has the thyroid cancer. I don't know . . . I could say something about it. But I haven't seen or talked to him since Christmas really
Yes Amy . . . what about it If all you can see is him and the wrong he has done you when you look at those babies, you need to get yourself some help. Call a friggin crisis hotline!
Yup my brother does live right close to you. His wife is the one that has the thyroid cancer. I don't know . . . I could say something about it. But I haven't seen or talked to him since Christmas really You should come visit.
Love yourself enough to know that you are beautiful, worthwhile, precious, caring,loving, important, sexy, loved, valued and amazing ..
.... carry with you a love for yourself that helps you shine even when the world seems out to get you, be the beautiful Woman that is there underneath all the fear, underneath all the bull sh*t that has been done to you, and ABOVE someone who would ever allow herself to get involved with YOUR husband to begin with. You are better than that do not let her rob you of your happiness. Long and short of it love yourself and show him love like he never hurt you.
I just posted this to you yeterday.
he is in a fog and I feel as though he reached out to you a little when he came home and now you are in a tail spin about the My space crap....
He will not feel safe to come out of the fog unless you are that safe place. Why not think positive and believe him??
If you are right and he is lying how is you getting so upset and standing still instead of working on your self esteem going to change that?
I doubt she would have been so angry and wrote such dumb things if he was not telling her it was over...
She is a dumb B*TCH grasping at straws and you need to leave her in the dust.
Emily, the reason it seems like you don't really read ou posts is because you don't to the things we suggest.
Call a therapist/a crisis line... I posted phone numbers last week.
Did you make that list for you?
What have been your GAL actions?
What are your goals?
There are sooo many suggestions in the past few months. You haven't done any of them. We're not just mumbling. We're tyring to help. Accept the help. Take it to heart.
You're cycling again. I think you're suffering from depression. You will never see anything clearly if you are. The conclusions you come to from certain things are completely blind. We dont see what you see. What we do see is that you're flailing around and we're trying to help. Reach out. Seek help and accept it.
May it be eternal while it lasts.
My sitch
Me: 36
H:34
M: 5 years
Bomb: 03/14/06
I just don't know how to leave her behind when it feels like she's his future. That's all he feels he has to look forward to. Meanwhile HIS girls and I are left completely behind. All for a stupid married man [censored] whore.
