I do read what you all write. I guess I just don't really understand how to do it.
I just can't get it right. This all looks hopeless and it is ALL my fault. I'm bad at all of this and I AM SORRY.
I don't understand how to detach when he is telling me he needs me to REALLY be there for him because I wasn't before and that's part of why he went to OW. That seems like stupid move. I don't understand how to balance all of this crap.
Amy . . . I don't understand what you mean by, "unless I have more than that blog to back me up" What more do I need??? The truth finally came out. . . . what should I think?
I mean there were always BULLSHIT excuses when he ended up down there instead of here on his weekends off. He did stop through here that one time . . . and he spent the whole night. How did he pull that off? Did he leave her across town in the truck?