You sound like my H. Any time I back him in a corner or he doesn't get his way he hollars divorce. In between he doesn't mention anything about it and we get along. You need to stop doing this to yourself. You need to let go. I am not saying let go of him completly, just give him some space. Let him see her for what she really is. He will finally wake up and realize what a mess he has made of things.
Everytime something doesn't go your way you are ready to divorce him and send the kids with him. You are better than that. Those kids are better off with you. So what if he has a job and you don't right now. You can give them something he can't!!!! (LOVE and COMFORT) He is going to be giving you money to help you out. Give it a chance.
I don't believe for one minute you are ready to give up. If you were, you wouldn't be on here moaning and groaning. You would throw in the towel and move on with your life. The reason you say these things about him and the kids is because you do love him and you don't know what to do. Your head is telling you one thing and your heart is telling you something different.
You are obsessing on Cassie. You need to stop doing that. Stop reading blogs and my space stuff that you know will upset you. You need to focus on you and stop focusing on her. You are out there looking for things. The less you know, the better off you will be.
Listen to Amy and everyone else on here!!!!! You are making things worse than they are!!!!!
