I'll get on that Amy. I'll start working on a drawing for you! I can eventually mail it too you (if you'll give me your address! LOL)
GOOD NEWS TIME:
I actually talked to someone who knew what was going on with the CS/State Aid thing.
If my CS is more than my cash (300 some odd dollars a month) I wouldn't be eligible for the cash any more anyway. So they would close IT out. The do NOT take your monthly payments if they are over what you are receiving from the cash. They do however take ALL arrears. . . . so chances are next week I'll be off the cash assistance. . AND . . .have my name on my H's bank account with access to all his money.
He has as much as agreed to certain standards. I left him a VM the other day and said about I couldn't cancel it. I hoped he wouldn't be mad. BUT . . . after 6 month or WHATEVER. Of him keeping my name on his bank account (with money in it) and coming home on a regular basis (NO MORE LIES) . . etc. . . then we could think/talk about changing the sitch. He called this morning (he FINALLY checked his VM) and said that he understood why I wanted those things.
So . . . it's looking like things aren't so bleak after all. I'm going to ask him if he'll do the check thing like Frank suggested Monday when he puts my name on the account (I'm going to tell him that because I won't get the bank card for a week or so . . I could use a little forward on the money . . and see what he says).
