What I am seeing here is that us Guys are to focus on meeting our wives needs 24/7 for days on end while the LD women only has to focus on the relationship for 5 minutes when they finally do get together for sex. He must meet her needs UNCONDITIONALLY while she will only meet his needs when X,Y, and Z get done, in effect, CONDITIONALLY.
What needs to happen is that BOTH parties must meet their spouses needs UNCONDITIONALLY, and they BOTH must do this at ALL times. Am I wrong here? And I am not talking about sex 24/7, I am talking about ALL the actions the LD spouse should be doing, like touching, flirting, kissing, cuddling, etc.. The LD spouse can not just focus on things once every week. They have to focus on it 24/7 just like the HD spouse.
