Quote: I’m not sure I have the energy to try flirting for three days with only a slight possibility of ML at the end.
Here's the caveat... if you are only flirting to GET something from her, the flirting is going to come across as fake and manipulative. Your vibe will be all off, and she will pick up on it.
This is called Barter and Trade. I do this for you in exchange for you giving something to me. There is nothing wrong with barter and trade, per se... if you are upfront and honest about it... but if you are trying to come across as 'your response doesn't matter to me,' when in fact it does... then all you are doing is being dishonest.
I understand your pouting and frustation. And you are still very much in the 'what am **I getting** out of this' mode. Don't blame you. BTDT.
Having said that, though... it doesn't get you anywhere you want to be.
