The stupid thing is, now she expects me to be the most outgoing lover in the world, feeling completely safe and trusting with her, when she ripped to threads any bit of confidence I did have in the bedroom.
Have you said this too her?
Keep up with standing up for yourself. I know, you shouldnt have to, but do not let her be disrespectful. There is a big differrence between her telling you what she needs and her just being brutal to you. Nip this in the bud immediately everytime.
ex Corey: listen. I understand you have a greivance, but there is NO need to speak to me like that.
As far as your public nekkid games, I am the last to judge it or criticize it. I really thought your stunt was misapplied, but hilarious. However, I think your W is 'testing' you on this too though. She is your W so I wouldnt encourage her to escalate this type of stuff at all. Her attitude comes off very attention seeking. There is a big diff between going topless in Riviera and skinny dipping with all your buds. Dont speak to her from a place of insecurity do it from a position of it being disrespectful to you.
This is MO. Seems people have to learn this the hard way. Its not about being nekkid, its her attitude. The reason I specifically think this is she is always talking about it to 'titilate' whoever is in the group, but never acting. She is your W not a trophy to flaunt. Protect what is yours, but dont be insecure.
Oh stop saying she is LD with me. Try saying she is LD because of the state of our R. That gives you something to work on, without hacking at your selfesteem.
