why did your W come back? Tell us more about your R. or post a link to your previous threads... Do you have kids?
tough lover
I see a lot of differences with you and corey...
you have made a lot of changes... extraordinary changes.
how long have you been reconciled/the affair over? you should post a thread, the ladies here love men fixing....
In a way, I think I'm just reaping what I sowed years ago. I became an unlovable person, so I have a hard time blaming her for not feeling loving toward me. I can blame her for cheating, but not for losing her attraction for me.
Ok you reaped what you sowed when she lost attraction for you. Thats over. You are not unloveable. I believe you and agree that she does have some significant amount of respect for you. IMO her regaining attraction for you is going to be more about you changing your belief and viewpoint about yourself, then anything else. You deserve high quality love.
That is not the same as resentment fueled entitlement.
