I hear ya! There are times I feel the same way, wondering what H was thinking, and then saying to myself, "he obviously wasn't thinking, he was just feeling", and OW made him feel good at that time. He obviously hadn't quite got the notion that we need to feel good about ourselves from within - no-one can make you happy, or make you feel good, when you are screwing your family. I remember asking him once if he thought he may've been insane, or something. He said, maybe he was. Ugh!
Good point you brought up!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim