Okay...but can you stop D proceedings? If not, we can't control them...if they want out, we have to let them go. That doesn't mean you don't love him, or that you don't care; it means to let him go because you love him and you want him to be happy. It means that unfortunately they don't want to try to resolve the issues in the M. They rather move on. Let them go if they won't stay. But...don't waste your life waiting around hoping.
That will only turn you into an old, angry, unhappy woman. Life is too short - maybe, around the corner, someone is waiting for you. But if you hang on waiting, you won't notice the other person.
