Hi Laurie, I have done well remaining dark and not contacting H or seeing him at all. I saw him on the road a few weeks ago and he waved, but I ignored him. Not sure if that was what I should have done or not. October is here now and I have two weeks before mediation is coming up. Getting nervous since this will be the first time I will have seen him since July. Wanted to ask you ....I wrote a letter to my inlaws that I wasn't mad at them and my opinion on the divorce. It wasn't a mean letter, but something that I felt needed to be done to express how I felt to them. I told them I was working on forgiving my H and did not hate him or them. Do you think I should send this letter or not? I don't won't it to look like I'm still trying to pursue him and I didn't know if I should wait to send the letter after our mediation date on Oct. 16th or not send it at all. What do you think? I don't won't to mess up my LRT that I've done so well with. Thanks for your help!!
