Yeah I know he has to be seeing someone although i have no real proof right now. it's scary for me to have to face the reality, but I'm trying to get myself "prepared" for the truth. although i don't think you can ever prepare yourself for the truth of knowing your H is seeing someone else. it brings down your self-esteem and everything else with you thinking "what is so great about her? why does he want her over me? Am i not atractive to him anymore?" crazy things go on in my head. but what can I do? he is obviously choosing her over me. but how long will that last?? You can have online discussions with one of the coaches on here and it's free. They have given me great advice and I'm trying to take it and listen. Nothing has changed in my situation. But like I said in my other sitch..I saw H the other day on the road and he waved. Made me mad b/c I thought "why should I wave back to you? we're not buddies?" Then I thought maybe I should...if there is any chance of reconcilation. So how are you dealing with your H with another woman?? I mean it's one thing to be assuming your H's with someoen else, but it's another one to actually KNOW it. How do you cope? Do you think it's just a fling? Has your H filed yet? Thanks for replying..it's good to hear from someone who cares.
