Well right now remaining dark is going to be the best thing. When I talked to him last time he acted like he didn't want to talk anymore and the discussion was over. I almost ran into him on the road today, but he drove past me. So that's the type of interaction that we get! None! But you have recommened to hold off on the bank trip so I will do that. I seriously think he's seeing someone b/c he has a guy roomate who is seeing a girl and I know he is brining over "single" girls to be with my H. So I will continue to remain dark until the court date other than that that's all I can do. Let me ask you: when they tell you "I'm not in love with you anymore" do you believe that? I have struggled with how he cannot be in love with me anymore within 2 years of marriage? He told me he felt like we were just friends. Is it true that they can just stop loving you or are they confused on thier feelings?? It also makes me wonder did he ever love from the beginning? Thanks for the help.
