Well we haven't seen eachother in 2 months and the last time I called him was about 4 weeks ago and we talked for about 2 hours. Some with him blaming me for everything and then telling me to not fight me in this divorce and to stop trying to take everything from him to "we can always remarry" stuff. Which I think is crap. ha. So after that conversation I left it alone. I thought i would try one more time to see where we were at and he says "I want a divorce". So just waiting on mediation date. That will be the only time I will see him. Ofcourse neither one of us will be in a good mood that day when I'm trying to "take all his stuff". He will not like me that day at all. But I guess I can try and keep a smiling face through it all. Is it good that I'm remaining completely dark?