Your help is so greatly appreciated!! I can hold off on the bank for a long time. He wanted me to give him the pictures in exchange for the money from the check and I told him I wasn't going to trade something out to get my money. I told him that was unfair that I should have to do that so he said "fine, we will let the judge decide". So I haven't told him that we can meet at the bank yet b/c of that. I have NO IDEA when mediation is. My attorney is stalling I think b/c he knows I don't won't this divorce. My attorney also had to wait until he got all of my H's accounts, bank statements, etc. so I'm just waiting on him to call me about mediation and dates. Mediation will be the first time we will have seen eachother in 2 months. That is going to be a rough day I know. But I am contining to not call, email, or have any interaction with him until that day. H told me 3 weeks ago "I am ready to get this divorce over and done with so I can move on with my life." Nothing has happened right now with this divorce...I believe I will be hearing soemething from my attorney this week and then things will start moving. But I will hold off on the bank and anything else. I will set small goals and see where we go from there. H is very stubborn and does not like anyone changing his mind about anything.
