Well never calls me, but when I have called him he will call me back and talk a little, but then says I don't won't to talk anymore until mediation. The next time I will see him will be at mediation. Or I have some pictures that he wants and also he has our income tax check that he wants to cash and cannot cash until I go with him to the bank. So between the bank and the mediation there are no other ways to have contact. If he is seeing someone else how could he still want me? He mentioned to me on the phone the 3 weeks ago " If you fight me on everything in this divorce then there will be no chance for us in the future....we will be like enemy's" Then said "I'm not saying that I won't come up to Tn (where I maybe moving) and see you and try to work on something in the future". BUt I think he is just saying that to get me to back down on him in this divorce. What do you think? Also do you think I should call him and let him know that I want to meet at the bank to cash the check and if I do that how do I react and what do I say when we won't be there together long? To me with him not calling me AT ALL and not backing down on this then he really wants the divorce. But then he tells me "I never wanted a divorce. Just a separation. But I got so mad at your parents when they got involved with us that I could never forgive them". He is stuck on not being able to forgive my parents and won't even consider reconciling now. I don't know how to convince him. What should I do? Thank you SO MUCH for taking the time to care and work with me. This means SO MUCH to me!!
