My apologies if you misunderstood... I'm not trying to paint a dim picture... just trying to stress how important it is for each and everyone of us to take care of ourselves. Sometimes people go into DBing thinking that it will bring their WAS home and back to the M. DBing is for the LBS and to prepare them for the new R with the return of their spouse or for a future R with someone new. It certainly changed my life... finding DB and everyone here was a wonderful experience for me.
