Hey Corri, Ah... sarcasm... (verrrry funny btw) such an effective tool and one I have been known to use on many an occasion. As for 'running with this football' I'm not. I guess I'm just hoping for a miracle response (besides sarcasm) that will make him 'think'!
HD... Yeah. Sometimes he likes to blame me for absolutely EVERYTHING wrong in his life... and I mean he goes all the way back 26 years to when we met!! I've responded to these attacks several ways. Sarcastic agreement. Calling his BS. And silence. It goes away... then comes back.
As for my reasons on trying to get back together... well.. I love him -- even if he is an idiot -- We have 26 great years together; been through ALOT together, and I can't (call me stubborn) bring myself to throw in the towel! Cuz even now D'd and everything (when he doesn't go into moron mode) we have a great time together. We connect.
BTW... we did the counciling thing. He is typical macho male... 'my problems aren't that bad' and as yet; I'm not into ultimatums -- right now I'm listening to my heart; following an inner instinct.
It's just not coming up with a reponse to that self-esteem accusation!!!
