you got it man, drop that rope, let her know you have dropped it. and yes only she can pick it back up and come back to you. you have not lost, and she has not won, you just have to change your stragy. you said she is pissed because you sleep in the bed and she on the couch, why not give alittle on this as well, kill her with kindness. if she wants this then give it too her, im not telling you to lay down and let her walk all over you, just on some things that dont really matter to you, but is huge to her. she will wonder why your doing this. lets face it her a is not going to work with your cousin, you know that, she knows that, everyone knows that, but she is feeling very guilty, you let her go, you did not stop her from doing this, and know she hates you for it, sorry man but she does, so now you have to get her conforible with you again. the only way you can do this is give in and give her what she wants, time.
