Thanks for your opinion. It's pretty much in line with what I have already done. It's just a matter of being consistant now. I told her that I accept that she wants out and that we're done. I haven't told her that I agree with why. I think that's honestly where I have to go next. I have to validate her opinion that the problems she's pointing out mean our relationship didn't work, and that we need to move on to find happiness. I need to give up anything I'm still holding on to. This is really difficult, because every time I think I've done so, I come to the realization that I haven't. It's almost like I have to take on responsibility for dissolving our marriage in order to get in the frame of mind to completely let go.
I guess my holding on to hope is me telling her that she's wrong, it's a challenge that she's fighting against. I think on some level I need to drop the rope so she is the one left carrying it and she has to decide whether to pull it or let it go.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
