Hi everyone I'm new and any advice would be WONDERFUL!!! My husband and I after 15 years are seperated for 8 months and papers are filed for a dissolution. I have been miserable and have fought a losing battle, showing how pathetic I am by begging, pleading, crying, threating, any thing you can think of I did it. My husband has told me that when he left he was not sure that he wouldn't be back but because I have been the way I have over the past months I have pushed him away! Because of our constant fights he tells me how much he hates me, and doesnt want to see me or hear from me (we have 3 children 10,6,2 he loves his kids very much) and hell would freeze over before he ever came back. We keep the anger going, I have come to realize that he's not coming back my question however is this Is there anyway to rekindle a frindship? Has anyone else had there spouse say the same things to them and then later they became friends or even found love for each other again? Oh yea before I forget he has a very close female friend (Just friends they have both made it very clear to everyone she wants more kids my husband cant have anymore, we have 3 kids she doesnt want to take care of someone elses kids, and etc.) I am terribly jealous over this!! He has stated that he is emotionally attached to her! Will this go away? Has anyone experienced this? If so please give me some advice to deal with it, he flaunts it in my face because he says he knows it pisses me off! How fair is that? Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks!!!!
