Muddle, to hear that your W is wishing an accident upon you and your son is quite frightening. I'm sorry but she needs some serious medication. I'm not joking. This is what is so hard for you, the thought of leaving S in her charge would be so anxiety provoking. I do know that one of the reasons I stayed with my W in the beginning of all this s*** is my C saying "do you want to leave your children in the hands of someone with serious depression?" NO. What more can I say, your W is NUTS! I can't imagine a mother wishing harm on her child, whew!!!
