Yes, this is why I need to consult a lawyer - so that all the facts are laid out by a professional. I will get on that soon. For now, it seems the more I leave her alone about OM, the more potential there is for them to realize that it's not what they thought and the costs are too high.
Alimony and child support. She thinks the state will give custody to her. I'm not so sure, but she might be right. She'll certainly have to get a full time job - and that will probably shatter her dreams of starting this business that she's finally working on. It's a consequence for her doing what she wants to do, but I do feel bad that she's finally trying to tackle something she's dreamt about for some time, and it will be thwarted by this.
I am really angry when I think about the possiblity that I might only be able to see my son every other weekend (and he won't get the father he deserves) because of this thing between my W and my cousin. It really disgusts me. Really.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
