Yeah, we're going to have to have that talk. I think it will be good for me to initiate it too.
As for the mindreader thing, I often think that W wants/wanted me to be an extension of herself that would do for her things that she didn't want to do. She would resent the hell out of me when I would do it differently than she would. She would actually get angry at me for the way I carried out a conversation telling me: you should have said this or that. My response was always something to the effect: you're so much better with people, perhaps you should be the one carrying on these conversations. She doesn't want a partner, a unique individual to share experiences in life with, she wants someone to compensate for her inadequacies as a person.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
