Quote: You can only do what feels right to you and F*** her. Basically, your W and mine DON'T want to see the good in us.
Don't waste emotion and energy on the Therapist. You can only deal with what is in your hands to deal with.
Yup - they are going to see what they want to. Nothing we can do about how they choose to perceive. But, don't let this sway you from acting in a way that could be perceived as caring. I think that's one mistake I made for a little while. I withdrew and stopped doing.
I'm not concerning myself with the therapist. W often uses her opinion of me as definitive proof that I'm wrong or there's something wrong with me. It's one sided information, and if she's spending so much time in HER therapy session talking about me, then her therapist isn't doing her job, which is helping my W resolve her issues including depression and social anxiety disorder. In fact, she's helping her rationalize and justify creating more reason to be depressed later in life.
Oh yeah, I was told this morning that I failed tests - W left things out for a long time and I didn't put them away. It doesn't matter that I've made huge strides in that regard. All that matters is what I haven't done.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
