Quote: Looking for change, or looking to see what my W is doing does nothing for us if she doesn't want it to.
Yes, that's a constant struggle for me too. What is he doing; how is he reacting to me; where is he in the universe? Even when I've attempted to detach, I'm like a napping cat whose ears are still on high alert. I look disinterested, but I am following your every peep with my radar ears.
So, I am with you in this battle Muddle. That said, man, your wife is really p*ssing me off. Almost more than GH's if that is possible (ha) b/c she is so much like I was. What a stark-raving miserable b*tch! And I can say that b/c I was her. A great person is somewhere in there, but she's lost herself somewhere and is just a mean human being to you and I want to slap her. My rant is over.
I think your card and gesture is wonderful, and I would hug and kiss you all day if you were my H for it. I thank you on behalf of now-sane W's everywhere
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
